Stepfanie Tyler: Designing a Life
These remarks are excerpted from a long post by Stepfanie...
You are not what you post. You are not what you intend. You are not what you dream about becoming someday when the circumstances are finally right. You are what you choose, especially when no one is watching, especially when it’s inconvenient, especially when it costs you something you’d rather keep. Identity isn’t found, it’s forged—one choice at a time. The life you’re living right now is just the accumulated evidence of every choice you’ve made or failed to make. If you don’t like it, you know what to do. Stop waiting to discover who you are and start choosing who you want to become.
Stepfanie's steps:
THE FIRST STEP is identifying what you’ve chosen accidentally.
THE SECOND STEP is subtracting before adding.
THE THIRD STEP is upgrading default decisions.
THE FOURTH STEP is choosing discomfort over passivity.
THE FIFTH STEP is letting your choices embarrass your past self because that’s how you know you’re evolving rather than just aging.
Read the whole post: https://www.badgirlmedia.com/p/you-are-what-you-choose
